Sunday, January 2, 2011

It's never too late...


What is bliss?

I've searched all over - dictionaries, wiki, internet, articles - and the only consistent explanation is extreme happiness, found through meditation.

But I'm not talking about the state of happiness or the ways to achieve it; rather the feeling of bliss..

It brings about alot of warmth, unexpected gratitude, emotions beyond descriptions.. Your pain and hurt just seems to melt away.. Surreality sets in.. Tears may well up in your eyes.. It reconstruct your views and opinions to a whole new level of understanding, peace and calmness..
Bliss does not automatically come because you and your partner love each other. Whilst love is extremely essential in to a blissful relationship, at times love is not just sufficient and may require to polish your relationship just like most other relationships. Transparency in marriage and proper consideration of your partner's feelings are two emotional features that are the answers to a blissful marriage. It is very important to recognize that a relationship is a many-sided affair that requires to be fostered in all of its ability for it to be successful.

The willingness to take sacrifices is a single secret to a blissful relationship. The partners must be ready to put their other half's happiness ahead of theirs occasionally for the relationship to really work. Sometimes the sacrifices might be immense but most regularly it is the little things stuff matter most. Let your partner know that you care about them and are willing to go a mile to please them oftentimes.

The other secret is to uphold a warm and loving relationship with your partner. Having physical bond with you partner will help you maintain blissful relationship. Little gestures like hugs and holding hands or physical intimacy present to you the chance to re-connect with your partner everyday.

Impulsiveness is also an essential part of a blissful relationship. Letting yourselves to descend in to a routine pattern could lead to monotony but being a spur-of-the-moment at times will put off dullness from creeping in and help maintain the relationship in an interesting lane.

Keep in mind the reasons as to why you are with you partner; remember that it is one of the most significant secrets to a blissful relationship. Always appreciating the uniqueness in your partner that attracted you to your partner will always remind you to never forget your love for your spouse. It will also make sure that they are always lovely before your eyes. Many things could change all through your relationship, but the one stuff that will never change is the reason why you fell in love initially.


Tender bliss how did you find me in the dark with all my troubles
collecting like coins in a wishing well,
under pain concrete form,
a flower breaks
through the crack of my once cold, solid shell.

Stay with me bliss ,
never leave me again,
for my need is great and my patience is plentiful.
Lessons I need not learn again,
forget where I have been.

Let me walk in the sweet embrace of a love's sacrifice,
and not forget it tender kiss of compassion.
Hold me in the arms of your unfolding grace
and we will put back all the fallen stars in the sky.

The heart is racing.. Perhaps it has heal and in the right place..